Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Lightworker Love Confessional: Stopping the back and forth once and for all.

The Romance Angels Oracle Cards


Sigh.  
OK so I can sum this up in like two sentences:  You know someone who makes you feel like they are the one and all you can see are the red flags, the reasons why this can't be The One.

What are some reasons they can't be the one even though you know deep inside they make you believe in love:
1.  They don't seem to want to talk to you even though all you want to do is listen to them talk to you.
2.  They're in love with other people because they already found someone that they say is their one.
3.  You're too high vibe living in your vortex and they are living in the 3D talking spiritual talk to you like they are almost ready to step up into some 4D consciousness.  Meanwhile you don't even entertain celestial guides that are below a 7D frequency.
4.  You're goal is to create a new system in this world and all they want to do is to ONLY  deal with what is happening right now in front of them.
5.  You keep telling yourself it can't work, even as you know all your magnetic attraction is dialed to them, and they continue to never magnetically gravitate to your life....but they are great at talking to everyone else in the world.
6.  You just keep telling yourself it can't work, so you continually break off all contact, communication, and trying because you just know that true love doesn't feel this stressful and difficult and you haven't even done anything yet.
7.  You keep telling yourself it can't work because they clearly don't even notice you or remember who you are...or anything.  They don't try.
8.  You keep telling yourself it isn't real what you feel.

Maybe we should just do the opposite of this to shake it off?
I think rather then deny that our feelings are there we should just acknowledge them.  We should sit down the part of us that is like "OMG this is True Love! Don't let go." and the other part who is like, "This is Fake Love.  We need to Let Go."

And lets tell these two parts, "Working against each other is breaking this heart.  What would working together look like?"
And the one that believes it's love could be like, "I know that love is real and every time I think it's real that other part decides it never can be real.  It never lets me be right for once."
And the one who is seeing all the red flags says, "I'm just trying to keep us from wasting all our time and energy on some dead end street of a person.  I believe in love too but I don't want to spend our time and energy throwing good love after bad people who clearly don't care."

And our heart is like, "OK so we all believe in love and if we work together you both can prove that love is real and fake love or false love isn't the kind of real love we are wanting to hang onto.

So these two cards are saying: We're not saying this is the one you've been waiting for BUT we're also not saying this isn't the one.  What we are saying is (Codependency Card came up for clarification) that you are having a hard time knowing what to do about these feelings because on a subconscious level this person is reminding you of one of your parent figures, that is where the push/pull is coming in.  This person is triggering some subconscious response and your new healed consciousness is saying, "No we don't want love like that anymore.  Where we have to do all the work, or where love means we have to give up who we are for them to be happy, or other issues like that."

Since this person gives you such a strong subconscious trigger what I would say (as a light coach) is that you need to spend time not projecting your issues onto this person.  If you really want to know if they should be a love in your life then put the wounds and the ego aside and get to know this person for him or herself.  Take the time to get to know them, who they are, and what they are about. Try and figure out what about them reminds your subconscious of your mom or dad.  It's possible this person can be the one who unknowingly helps you break a pattern when it comes to love so that you can begin to truly attract real love.

Thank You!







2/19 Flower Therapy Message: Your Love Light Is Shining

Flower Therapy Oracle Cards by Robert Reeves


Just off the top my first thought is that you've been focusing on the external- this 3D experience of taste, tough, smell, sight, and hearing- and your Vortex or your angels are going to (without you being aware of it) start to bring your beautiful inner self out.  And you're going to notice that people are noticing you more.  You may feel a little weird about the positive attention.  So like people are going to suddenly start to see the qualities of quiet caring, steady support, the positive attitude, the love and light that you bring.  It's like they are going to see you in a new light and react to you in a new way.  Maybe with like some newfound respect.  

I think we forget that the magnetic energy comes from our vibrations, not our solid mass.  So things that you thought people couldn't see like your kindness or the time you take to clean your own wounds up, they suddenly begin to take notice.  And it's about learning how to deal with being in the spotlight of positive loving attention.








Saturday, February 15, 2020

Butterfly Power: Making a small change into a lightstyle shift.



I tried going for a walk today around a lake and there were so many baby strollers, toddlers who took up the whole double sidewalk just with their one foot tall selves, and people with dogs that I ended up quitting the walk about 5 minutes in.  I went across the street and walked back home and I happened to catch this little gem along the way.  Hope you enjoy the little video.

The Secret Language Of Animals Oracle Cards

The butterfly is a symbol of our soul transforming.  It's a sign that we are becoming who we really are.  Every journey, or process, has phases and we should make note of what part of the cycle are we in.  Are you at the beginning, the middle, the end, or the rebirth?

This also can be a sign that your challenge is changing you from the inside out.  It may feel like you are dying but you are turning into someone new.  Like when you lose 50 pounds.  You become more confident.  No one can take that success away from you.  It's something you earned because of your willpower and concentration.

The red flag that this card addresses is that sometimes we can get stuck in a phase.  Like the "honeymoon phase" of a relationships and we leave when it becomes work, predictable, and too familiar.  Sometimes we love to start things and never finish.  An example would be buying books and never really reading them.  

Butterfly can bring quantum change by helping us identify which part of the cycle we have trouble finishing.  For a lot of people its about starting a new habit and then turning that habit into a lifestyle.  Something as simple as introducing a new small habitual change in your daily routine can help you create a lifestyle shift.

For me, I'm shifting into the frequency of a Source Made, self made multi-millionaire who changes the world with her time and attention.  Maybe for me, I could start posting everyday.  I could challenge myself to a 21 day writing process where I post once a day.  It wouldn't hurt to try.  :)

Try with me!
Create your own 21 day challenge and see what happens.
Thank you Butterfly Spirit!